Comments on: Win HARBORING HOPE for FREE http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/ Helping heal the hurts caused by infidelity Fri, 07 May 2010 05:18:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: c.christine @ battleofjoan http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1076 c.christine @ battleofjoan Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:30:13 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1076 I realize I missed out on the deal, but I'm so overwhelmed by the amount of hurt here. I am detailing my journey--battle, on my new blog, if anyone would like to stop by and check it out. I realize I missed out on the deal, but I’m so overwhelmed by the amount of hurt here. I am detailing my journey–battle, on my new blog, if anyone would like to stop by and check it out.

]]> By: Jennifer http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1030 Jennifer Thu, 21 Jan 2010 14:46:47 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1030 My husband is a sex addict and we are currently separated. In order for him to move back in under true husband/wife terms, I have a large amount of healing and don't know where to start. I have four small children and really need this if I am to help this family become one again. My husband is a sex addict and we are currently separated. In order for him to move back in under true husband/wife terms, I have a large amount of healing and don’t know where to start. I have four small children and really need this if I am to help this family become one again.

]]> By: Cliff http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1029 Cliff Thu, 21 Jan 2010 01:14:45 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1029 I really would appreciate winning the Harboring Hope course. I served in Iraq in a civilian capacity for 2 years, separated from my wife. During my last 6 mos. there I had an affair which totally destroyed my marriage and family. I returned from Iraq with PTSD and major depression, and our family is now w/o an income (except from Soc. Sec. disability payments), so the cost factor is very important as well. My wife cannot seem to move on about the affair, and yet I've tried everything I can find to fix things. Would you please help us? I really would appreciate winning the Harboring Hope course. I served in Iraq in a civilian capacity for 2 years, separated from my wife. During my last 6 mos. there I had an affair which totally destroyed my marriage and family. I returned from Iraq with PTSD and major depression, and our family is now w/o an income (except from Soc. Sec. disability payments), so the cost factor is very important as well. My wife cannot seem to move on about the affair, and yet I’ve tried everything I can find to fix things. Would you please help us?

]]> By: Virginia http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1028 Virginia Wed, 20 Jan 2010 18:43:37 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1028 After discovering my husband's second affair and continued pornography use, he admitted that he was a sex addict. But now he has revealed that he has had sex with 9 women during our marriage and has lost track of the number of failed sexual attempts in any environment where women would give him attention, including in front of his 6 year old daughter. I feel like I have had my guts ripped out and have no sane options, no pain free alternatives, and no clear path to the ultimate peace, free from suffering. I am willing to invest the time and effort into healing myself and growing personally in order to achieve happiness with or without my husband. After discovering my husband’s second affair and continued pornography use, he admitted that he was a sex addict. But now he has revealed that he has had sex with 9 women during our marriage and has lost track of the number of failed sexual attempts in any environment where women would give him attention, including in front of his 6 year old daughter. I feel like I have had my guts ripped out and have no sane options, no pain free alternatives, and no clear path to the ultimate peace, free from suffering. I am willing to invest the time and effort into healing myself and growing personally in order to achieve happiness with or without my husband.

]]> By: Patricia http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1027 Patricia Wed, 20 Jan 2010 16:48:27 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1027 My husband and I have grown tremendously in our intimacy working through Marriage 911 and (currently) Married for Life. He works diligently at helping me to feel safe; however, my mind is stuck in the rut of our past. I have a hard time seeing my husband through a new lens. I often say, "I cannot wait to wake up one day and have freedom again". Instead, I am exhausted and worn from being owned by my fears, triggers and pride. I am ready to live my life with zeal again! I want to look in the mirror and see a Christian woman, a wife, a mother, a friend, a sister, a daughter with light in her eyes. My husband and I have grown tremendously in our intimacy working through Marriage 911 and (currently) Married for Life. He works diligently at helping me to feel safe; however, my mind is stuck in the rut of our past. I have a hard time seeing my husband through a new lens. I often say, “I cannot wait to wake up one day and have freedom again”. Instead, I am exhausted and worn from being owned by my fears, triggers and pride. I am ready to live my life with zeal again! I want to look in the mirror and see a Christian woman, a wife, a mother, a friend, a sister, a daughter with light in her eyes.

]]> By: Stephanie http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1026 Stephanie Wed, 20 Jan 2010 14:36:54 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1026 My husband and I just recently separated after I discovered him having a 3rd affair in our 6 years of marriage. Since he has left, he has continued this relationship with another woman and has no desire to come back home. I am so angry and hurt that he would leave me and our 2 young kids, but at the same time I am trying to focus on where I went wrong in our marriage and how God can mold me into the woman He wanted me to be. At times I feel such a peace that through these trials, God will fight for our marriage, but then there are other heart-breaking moments where I feel I cannot bear the pain. I stumbled across Harboring Hope this morning as I was looking into counseling at Crossroads Counseling, where my husband and I have been before after the first affair. I feel that this program would help me move through all the hurt and get in the place that God wants me to be. My husband and I just recently separated after I discovered him having a 3rd affair in our 6 years of marriage. Since he has left, he has continued this relationship with another woman and has no desire to come back home. I am so angry and hurt that he would leave me and our 2 young kids, but at the same time I am trying to focus on where I went wrong in our marriage and how God can mold me into the woman He wanted me to be. At times I feel such a peace that through these trials, God will fight for our marriage, but then there are other heart-breaking moments where I feel I cannot bear the pain. I stumbled across Harboring Hope this morning as I was looking into counseling at Crossroads Counseling, where my husband and I have been before after the first affair. I feel that this program would help me move through all the hurt and get in the place that God wants me to be.

]]> By: Princess http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1025 Princess Tue, 19 Jan 2010 12:02:38 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1025 Hi Rick & wonderful team, I want to win horboring hope to help me complete the process of healing to myself and to be me good self again with or without my husband. I'm the hurt spouse here but he has threatoned to leave me and the our three children after accepting openly before his relations that he has a girlfriend. All he does is to rub it in over and over again. Just tired of this cycle and need help to break it... Hi Rick & wonderful team,

I want to win horboring hope to help me complete the process of healing to myself and to be me good self again with or without my husband. I’m the hurt spouse here but he has threatoned to leave me and the our three children after accepting openly before his relations that he has a girlfriend. All he does is to rub it in over and over again. Just tired of this cycle and need help to break it…

]]> By: sshhhh http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1024 sshhhh Tue, 19 Jan 2010 03:36:05 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1024 I'm angry and I'm tired and Im stuck. I feel like a bystander in a life I no longer recognize. I’m angry and I’m tired and Im stuck. I feel like a bystander in a life I no longer recognize.

]]> By: Nancy http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1023 Nancy Mon, 18 Jan 2010 21:23:13 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1023 I AM harboring hope. I have stayed with my husband because I love him & because I know he loves me. My husband helped me to accept Jesus into my life and live a Christian life, when I was lost. My husband has had affairs with 5 different women that I know of; 4 before we were married and 1 this past summer. We were married in August, 2008, 2 weeks after I learned of the 4th affair. My husband finally admitted he has a problem & seems to honestly want to change that. So I chose to stay & support him & work through this. I live on hope & prayer, but I need more than that & he wants me to just get over it! I AM harboring hope. I have stayed with my husband because I love him & because I know he loves me. My husband helped me to accept Jesus into my life and live a Christian life, when I was lost. My husband has had affairs with 5 different women that I know of; 4 before we were married and 1 this past summer. We were married in August, 2008, 2 weeks after I learned of the 4th affair. My husband finally admitted he has a problem & seems to honestly want to change that. So I chose to stay & support him & work through this. I live on hope & prayer, but I need more than that & he wants me to just get over it!

]]> By: eccles http://www.harboringhope.com/2010/01/13/freecourse/comment-page-1/#comment-1019 eccles Mon, 18 Jan 2010 10:04:35 +0000 http://www.harboringhope.com/?p=166#comment-1019 I would like to win Harboring hope cause I need hope .My husband does not have empathy and thinks we are a happy after a doing porn for 3 years and 2 affairs . I want to heal and educate my self and have support by people who understand me.Iwould like to learn what recovery really looks like. I would like to win Harboring hope cause I need hope .My husband does not have empathy and thinks we are a happy after a doing porn for 3 years and 2 affairs .
I want to heal and educate my self and have support by people who understand me.Iwould like to learn what recovery really looks like.

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