The Shocking Truth About Trust
This “The Shocking Truth About Trust” explains the basis of trust as well as the three components for trust. Additionally, tips for both the hurt spouse and the unfaithful spouse are given to assist in their journey toward wholeness. This practical advice comes from over 24 years of clinical experience in the treatment of couples and individuals dealing with infidelity. I hope you’ll take advantage of our bonus report.
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My experiences with mistrust were between the ages of 16-19.Nuff said! Bad age to start out on the wrong foot. Also I never dealt with the forgiveness thing. Never came up, not really an option, so to speak, at the time. I never learned to entertain the idea of forgiveness until my age of 47!!!!Mid life crisis? Whatever! I am one of the ones that PUSHES away anything and everything and everybody! NEVER accepting anything from anybody for fear of being hurt. FEAR! My poor husband was the recipient of all this hate and hell……………and he reacted in the only way he knew how at the time……….put a man in a situation like this, and he will react!
Comment by momj — December 29, 2009 @ 10:19 am
Dear Rick & ARC Staff:
After Revelation in May 2006, we stuggled to find qualified professional help and I am forever grateful to have been enrolled in your HH program of April 2009. We completed 911M fall of ‘09 and are now in our 4th week of M4Life. Things have gotten tougher again and I am grateful for the timely email of this article to again review it’s incredible information to help us continue on this difficult (but so worthwhile) recovery course. This small comment cannot do justice to or explain the wealth of intelligent, pertinent, helpful information contained in the contents.
Many, many, MANY, heartfelt thanks for your work and dedication to this MUCH needed ministry. May the Lord richly and abundantly bless you and your families!!!
With His love and mine – Margie
Comment by Margie — December 29, 2009 @ 10:51 am
Rick asks, What has helped in rebuilding trust again after betrayal, and what has not helped.
without reading “the Shocking Truth about Trust” as of yet, I will say this through my ever so new journey of a few months past the betrayal.
Being able to express my pain to him without being shut down has helped. When he refuses to go there or comes back at me with “what I did to cause it” That behavior takes away my trust.
Having my husband become an open book, leaving emails open, or the cell phone out where I can review text and calls has helped me.
Having my husband re-assure me every chance throughout the day that he loves me with all his heart and loves our life together makes me feel like I did before the betrayal happened. He even phones me from work or sends a text that he loves me. I need positive affirmations everyday to feel secure again.
Asking permission to go somewhere with the guys instead of just telling me he’s going is a tremendous help in building trust.
A greater respect and appreciation for me than before for is rebuilding trust for me. I am sure as I (we) continue forward with this journey that with God in the midst of the picture, we can have complete healing.
Comment by Lila Davenport — December 29, 2009 @ 11:18 am
What I’ve learned the most about trust, is that it is a choice. It is a choice to not check phone logs, and follow him to make sure he is where he says he will be. I’ve also learned that giving into those temptations give me short term ease but long term dissatisfaction and inhibit me to be able to truly trust.
Comment by Crystal — December 29, 2009 @ 12:50 pm
I told my wife about my unfaithfulness about two and a half years ago. At that time she felt like she would never be able to trust me again. Now her trust has increased but she still finds herself holding back, afraid to trust too much, afraid to be hurt again, afraid that if she gets hurt again that it will be more than she can bear.
Comment by Larry — January 29, 2010 @ 4:19 am